Essex, England Alternative Sex Ads - BDSM, Trans & Swingers

Browse Essex, England alternative sex ads to meet kinky locals looking for BDSM, domination & fetish, transgender sex, or swingers & threesomes hookups near you. It's free to search these alternative classifieds, or post your own ad!

Home / Alternative Sex Ads /

Show Ads In: London | Bath | Birmingham, UK | Brighton | Bristol | Cambridge | Devon | East Anglia | East Midlands | Essex | Hampshire | Kent | Leeds | Liverpool | London | Manchester | Newcastle | Oxford | Sheffield

December 25th, 2025

Looking for Love and Adventure in Essex! 🌈 Hey there, lovely people of Essex! My name is Hazel, and I'm a transgender woman who's ready to dive into the exciting world of dating. 💃 I believe that love knows no boundaries, and I'm searching for someone special who shares that sentiment. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, I embra...

FtM seeking Princess Bride in Essex FtM seeking Woman in Essex Hi, I'm Andy, age 33, FtM transgender man living in Essex. Also, you must love that movie! If you don't get the reference you can still message me anyway! I love that movie and I will watch it with you over and again. View my pics and send me a message @AndyFtM4Princ...

Transgender Temptation in Essex Hey there, I'm Nanette from Essex, England. I may not fit society's typical mold, but that's what makes me unique and special. Being transgender has allowed me to embrace my true self and connect with others who understand and appreciate me for who I am. LGBTQ spaces in Essex like The George Yard ...

DOMME AVAILABLE for private Femdom and DISCIPLINE Experienced Dominatrix for Essex Submissive Experienced Dominatrix seeks submissive, ready and willing to learn discipline from a loving but strict Mistress. Contact me @ EssexDommeX if you are available and willing to serve my needs. Available For: Discipline  Corporal Punishment Rolepl...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I'm Shannan from Essex, England, and I'm a submissive male looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission. I crave being controlled and taught how to properly please a Mistress. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks and fetishes, including whippings, domination,...

Sexy Shemale Looking for Hot Fun in Essex Are you ready to have the time of your life with a horny shemale? I'm Kristina, and I'm on the hunt for a local man who can handle all of my desires. When it comes to sex, I love it all - from deepthroating your throbbing cock to riding you until we both explode with orgasms. I want to play with y...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Fun I never knew how much I craved being a submissive male until I discovered the world of BDSM. My name is Nichols and I am from Essex, England. I am on the hunt for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix who can force me into submission and teach me how to properly please a Mistress. Some of my ...

Join Laurie for an unforgettable swinging experience in Essex! Hey there, I'm Laurie from Essex, England. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, we welcome you to join us for some steamy fun. You can find us on swingers ...

Sexy Shemale Gwen Looking for Hot Fun in Essex I love to dominate a man, taking control and making him beg for more. I'm a kinky shemale from Essex looking for a local guy who can handle my insatiable appetite for sex. My name is Gwen and I want to show you a good time. I enjoy being on top, riding you hard until we both explode with pleasure....

Passion Seekers in Essex Hello there, I'm Marga from Essex, England. My husband and I are a fun-loving, open-minded couple who enjoy exploring the kinkier side of life. We are active members on FreeSexAds.com Swingers Lifestyle Profiles under the username marga29529. We are always on the lookout for like-minded individua...

Kinky Mistress Seeking Submissives for BDSM Roleplay I never thought I'd be brave enough to share my deepest fetish desires, but here I am, ready to explore all the kinky possibilities with someone who's just as adventurous as me. My name is Winni, and I'm from Essex, England. You can find me in the FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username winniess9...

Passionate Swingers Looking for Playmates in Essex Hello there, I'm Catharine from Essex, England. My husband and I are fun-loving, open-minded, and kink friendly swingers who are always looking for new adventures in the lifestyle. We believe that life is too short to not explore our deepest desires and fantasies together. You can find us on Free...

A Sensual Journey with Felecia Hey there! My name is Felecia and I'm a transgender woman living in Essex, England. I love exploring new places and meeting new people, especially those who are open-minded and accepting of the LGBTQ community. I enjoy being able to express my true self and embrace my identity as a transgender i...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I'm Barron, a submissive male from Essex, England, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username barroness58384. I enjoy kinks like whippings, domination,...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Dominic Hey there, I'm Dominic from Essex, England. I have a unique fetish that really gets me going – I love being tickled! It might sound a bit unusual, but the sensation of someone else's touch on my skin drives me wild. I'm a submissive guy who enjoys giving up control to a dominant woman who knows ...

Looking for Love in Essex Hey there! I'm Harriot, a transgender gal from Essex, England. I may not fit society's idea of perfect, but I'm proud of who I am and love being part of the LGBTQ community. I enjoy long walks on the beach, cozy nights in watching movies, and exploring all the amazing local cafes and restaurants a...

Hot Shemale in Essex Ready to Play and Ride You All Night Long Are you looking for a kinky shemale to fulfill all your wildest fantasies? Look no further because I am here to satisfy all your desires. My name is Amata and I am a sexy shemale seeking a local man for some steamy fun. I love being both top and bottom, giving blowjobs, getting my ass pounded, and...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I'm Larry, a submissive male from Essex, England, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username larry81487. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks and fetis...

Join Catrina for a Swinging Adventure in Essex! Hello there! I'm Catrina, a fun-loving swinger from Essex, England. My husband and I are always up for new adventures and love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We're a friendly and open-minded couple who enjoy meeting like-minded individuals for some naughty fun. You can find us on swi...

Mistress seeks Essex male sub for BDSM and training Mistress seeking male sub in Essex I am Mistress Velvet Sky. I use a variety of toys on My boys. You will be My submissive boy toy. I have a contract that We/we will mutually agree to in writing. We/we can hash this out if we decide to enter a Dom/sub relationship. I am not a game player, so please...

Mistress has opening for a male submissive training in Essex area Mistress Seeks submissive male in Essex Mistress seeks submissive male for training in Essex. Are you a sub and available evenings or weekends? Some weekdays are available upon request. Our first few meetings will decide if we can work together and we will come to a written agreement after discussi...

Transgender Cutie Seeking Connection in Essex! Hey there! My name is Roanne, and I'm a fun-loving transgender person living in beautiful Essex, England. 🌈 I wanted to put myself out there and see if I can find someone special who appreciates me for who I am. Being trans has been an incredible journey of self-discovery and acceptance. It ha...

Kinky Fetish Fun with Gillan from Essex! Are you ready to explore your wildest fantasies with a kinky girl from Essex? Well, look no further because I'm here to make all your fetish dreams come true! My name is Gillan, and I love indulging in all sorts of naughty kinks and fetishes. Whether you're into BDSM, domination, submission, role...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I never knew how much pleasure could come from submitting to a powerful Mistress until I met my first Domme. My name is Stu and I am a submissive male from Essex, England looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly...

Explore Your Wildest Fantasies with Vale from Essex Hello there! My name is Vale and I am a female swinger from Essex, England. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We believe that life is too short not to indulge in our deepest desires. Whether you're into role-playing, BDSM, ...

Passionate Swingers Looking for Playmates in Essex Hello there, I'm Mari from Essex, England. My husband and I are a fun-loving, open-minded couple who love exploring our kinks and fantasies with like-minded individuals. We are always up for new experiences and adventures in the swinging lifestyle. We can be found on FreeSexAds.com Swingers Lifes...

Naughty Shemale Looking for Hot Encounters in Essex Are you a horny man looking for a wild time with a sexy shemale? Look no further, because I'm Leelah and I'm ready to fulfill all your wildest fantasies. I'm a kinky shemale seeking a local man for some steamy fun. I love getting down and dirty, so if you're into it, I can be your top or bottom ...

Unleash Your Desires with Randy from Essex! Hey there, fellow thrill-seekers! I'm Randy, a spirited female swinger hailing from the enchanting county of Essex in England. Together with my incredible husband, we're on a quest to explore the deepest corners of pleasure and satisfaction. 🌟 If you're looking for a couple who embodies friend...

TS Asian lady ready for upscale action (28) Asian Transexual Lady for Man in Essex Hot and sexy Asian transexual, fully functional and wants to play with you! Message RubyTS4male...

Unleash Your Wildest Desires with Donica from Essex Hello there, I'm Donica, a female swinger from Essex, England. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're into role-playing, BDSM, or something more unique, we're always up for trying new things. You can find us in th...

Trans Man waiting for right date with hot beauty Handsome Trans Man for Dating in Essex Hey! Thanks for looking at my ad. This is the first time I've done this so bear with me plz. I am Jared, FtM trans man. I transitioned at age 25 and I just turned 30. Come and meet me!  Check my personal profile @FtMJared29 and say hi! ...

Join me for an unforgettable experience Hello there! I'm Rachel from Essex, England. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore kinks and fetishes. We enjoy meeting new people who share our interests and are always up for trying new things. You can find us in the swingers dating profiles with the member n...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Butler Fetish I'm Butler, a submissive male from Essex, England, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under the username butleresse52608. I have always had a fascination wi...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Adventures My name is Arlo and I am a submissive male from Essex, England. I am on the hunt for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix who can force me into submission and teach me how to properly please a Mistress. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username arlo34290. I have always bee...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Karyn! Hey there, I'm Karyn from Essex, England! I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore. It's all about exploring the world of Femdom and taking control in a playful and exciting way. I love the power dynamics and the thrill of being in charge. I'm a friendly and open-minded person who loves to ...

Hot Shemale in Essex Looking for a Wild Time I love to get down and dirty with a man who knows how to please a shemale like me. My name is Edi, and I'm on the hunt for a local guy who can handle all my naughty desires. When it comes to sex, I'm into everything from deepthroating to anal play. I love giving and receiving blowjobs, getting my ...

Superior Massage by gorgeous T-Girl T-Girl for Dating in Essex I will help you unwind and create a cozy environment for you! I am 36DD, 7" and can give you so much pleasure. View my Transgender World profile and message me for my pics! @GayleTGirl Gayle <3    Transgender World Profile Username: GayleTGirl...

Elegantly Enigmatic Transgender Beauty Seeks Connection Hey there, I'm Nola, a transgender woman from Essex, England. I may not fit society's standards of beauty, but my uniqueness is what sets me apart. You can check out my pics at my personal profile page @nolaesse51587. I love being part of the LGBTQ community because it allows me to embrace my tru...

Raunchy Shemale in Essex Ready to Play Are you looking for a wild time with a sexy shemale? Well, look no further because I'm Carly and I'm here to fulfill all your dirty fantasies. I'm a horny tranny seeking a local man for some mind-blowing sex and fun. I love getting down and dirty, so if you're into it, I'm up for anything. Wheth...

Explore Charity's Tempting Fetish World Hey there! I'm Charity from Essex, England, and I have a unique fetish that sets my heart racing. I absolutely adore indulging in foot worship 🦶. There's something so sensual and intimate about having my feet pampered and adored. It's a feeling like no other! I'm a friendly and open-minded ind...

Join us for an unforgettable experience! Hello there, I'm Seline from Essex, England. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We believe that life is too short not to indulge in our deepest desires. You can find us in the swingers dating profiles under the member name se...

The Sensual Journey of Torey: Seeking a Connection Hey there! 👋 My name is Torey, and I'm on a thrilling journey of self-discovery as a transgender individual. 🌈 I'm excited to connect with someone who appreciates me for who I am, inside and out. So, let me tell you a bit about myself! Physically, I have a unique body type that's curvy in a...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Grove Fetish Fun I'm Grove, a submissive male from Essex, England, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to properly please a Mistress. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under the username grovee92854. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks ...

Explore Kinks and Fetishes with Cristie from Essex Hello there! My name is Cristie, and I am a female swinger from Essex, England. My husband and I are friendly, open-minded individuals who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We enjoy meeting new people who share our adventurous spirit and are always up for trying new things. You can...

Unleash Your Desires with Austina from Essex Are you ready to embark on a tantalizing journey of pleasure and exploration? Look no further than Austina, your seductive guide to the world of swingers. Located in the heart of Essex, England, my husband and I are eager to connect with like-minded individuals who crave excitement and want to ind...

Passionate Swingers Looking for Playmates in Essex Hello there, I'm Mimi, a fun-loving and open-minded swinger from Essex, England. My husband and I are always on the lookout for new adventures and exciting experiences in the lifestyle. We are kink-friendly and love exploring our wildest fantasies with like-minded individuals. You can find us on ...

Embrace Your True Self with Michelle Hey there! I'm Michelle, a proud transgender woman from Essex, England. I may not fit society's standards of beauty, but I embrace my uniqueness and love every part of myself. Being LGBTQ has taught me the importance of self-love and acceptance, and I hope to find someone who appreciates me for wh...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Roxy from Essex Hey there! I'm Roxy, a friendly and open-minded girl from Essex, England. I have a unique fetish that I absolutely love exploring. It's all about sensory deprivation - the feeling of being completely at the mercy of my partner, unable to see or hear anything. It's such a thrilling experience for m...

December 24th, 2025

Join me and my husband for a wild ride in Essex! Hey there, I'm Daniel from Essex, England. My husband and I are friendly, open-minded swingers who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned pro, we guarantee a fun and exciting time together. You can find us in the swingers dating profiles unde...

Looking for Love and Adventure! Hey there, lovely people of Essex! My name is Ariana, and I'm a transgender woman who's ready to dive into the exciting world of dating. 🌈✨ So, let me tell you a bit about myself. I have a unique body type that's curvy in all the right places, giving me an irresistible charm. People often sa...